Divorce, Social Media, and the Advantage of Mediation

September 21, 2018 by  
Filed under Mediation

September 21, 2018

There has been much discussion in the media recently advising the public to beware of what they post on their social media web pages. Most of this has centered upon social media and potential employers. But, to no one’s surprise social media has become fertile ground for adversaries in litigation to dig up and exploit facts to be used against each other. A court may order a party to litigation to turn over his or her social media passwords to the opposing party. Indeed, the two parties often end up paying lawyers to surf their opponents social media pages. This is no less true when the case is a divorce, custody modification, or support modification.

One of the advantages of divorce mediation is that the privacy of the parties is of the highest priority. There will be no one digging through either party’s social media history, trying to find anything that could possibly reflect badly on that person. Rather, the two spouses in a mediated divorce are being guided forward, creating their new future; not looking back, re-living their past.

 

 

 

Offices:

Laguna Niguel Divorce Mediation

Anaheim Divorce Mediation

Irvine Divorce Mediation

Newport Beach Divorce Mediation

Seal Beach Divorce Mediation

Huntington Beach Divorce Mediation

Testimonials: 

“Sam is an excellent mediator and pushed the process smoothly and efficiently. He offered knowledgeable advice and provided impartial guidance through our divorce agreement.  He even offered assistance after our divorce was settled, which has been very much appreciated.  I recommend Sam to anyone who requires a divorce mediator. ” – Janine T. 

“Sam worked with us through a very long process to mediate our divorce. He was very fair through the process, I never felt he took anyone’s side. He was always calm and understanding through the process, even though they situation was tense at times. You can tell he was invested in the process to see us to finish. I would highly recommend Sam to any who need his services. Thanks for getting us through Sam.” – Mike C.

“Sam skillfully guided us through a lengthy, often difficult process and helped save us a good deal of grief – and money. He has the patience of a saint and a near ‘Solomonic’ gift to help cut through complex situations and issues.  Sam worked hard to make our outcome as close to ‘Win-Win’ as possible.  He was always professional, helping to keep his clients “on the high road” at all times.” – Carl S. 

“Sam did an excellent job of divorce mediation between my ex and myself.  He was very fair to us both and very very patient and understanding. Thank you Sam for making a painful situation as painless as possible!!” – Chris W.

“Sam is a great mediator.   The first time I spoke with him was many years ago when we came close to filing but decided to give it a second chance.  He was very patient and understanding that we may want to work it out.   A few years later we decided that it was enough to just move on and file for divorce.   Same guided us through the divorce mediation without taking anyone’s side.   He was fair and extremely patient, considering the personalities he was dealing with.  Thanks again Sam for everything!” – Ngim L. 

“I spoke to Sam Anderson over the phone before our initial meeting and, right away, I felt more at ease.  He assured me about some concerns that I had going into the process.  Even though it had been 4 years since the divorce, emotions were high in both of the meetings.  Sam was extremely professional, caring, and helpful walking us through the painful steps of modification.  If I ever needed a divorce mediator again, I would definitely hire Sam Anderson.” – Shannon B.

“Sam Anderson’s compassion, knowledge, and experience was a tremendous asset that enabled us to move through the legal process efficiently.   I would highly recommend his services to anyone in need of a trustworthy divorce mediator. ” – Eve R.

“Sam’s divorce mediation made a difficult process much easier.  We had a real challenge where we needed to get our house refinanced.  There was a chicken and an egg problem that could have forced the house to go to sale.  Sam came up with a way to solve the problem and save the house.” – Steve K.

“Sam is such a great and wonderful divorce mediator throughout my entire 9-month divorce process full with challenges at both emotional and financial sides. He has always been incredibly patient with me and my ex-wife and actually the key element to hold onto both sides to make things keep moving forward. I do want to sincerely recommend him with my all due appreciation and respect for both his work and his kindness for all his future clients.”  – Yuan Y. 

“Not only did Sam make the whole process as painless as possible, but he gave calm, reasonable advice that allowed us to make the best decisions for ourselves and our children.  I have contacted Sam no less than three times after our divorce was final with questions.  Each time he responded quickly and went out of his way to help me resolve and understand the issues.  I highly recommend Sam to anyone who finds themselves in need of a great divorce mediator. ” – Christine M.

“Sam made what one would call  ‘ugly process’ go smooth.  He was great in giving fair advice and recommendations to help my wife and I get through this and avoid the legal headache of the court process. I would highly recommend him to anyone looking for a divorce mediator!” – Darin M.

“Sam was very professional and helpful.  He was very patient throughout the whole divorce process and explained things in a way that was easily understood.  He was also very fair in his dealings with myself and my ex. I would highly recommend Sam for those going through this trying period in their life.”  – Rob J.

“Sam is a great divorce mediator. He helped me and my ex through a very difficult time. We did not agree on much and at times it got a little heated. Sam stayed calm and always helped achieve what we came in there to do. The end result was wonderful. He always answered phone calls, emails quickly and was always so friendly and helpful. He never ever took one persons side. I have already recommended him to two friends of mine and will do so in the future. If your looking for a great divorce mediator Sam is your man.  Oh and he also met me at a location that was close to me to sign papers. He always made it convenient for me.” – Lindsey J. 

“Sam is wonderful! He helped us through a difficult and emotionally challenging divorce and handled both myself and my ex-husband with the perfect amount of caring and tact.  The process could not have gone any better. He was fair, kind, straightforward and made the entire process go as smoothly and quickly as possible. He’s the best – I highly recommend him!” – Leah P. 

“Sam provided a positive experience and an easy transition for a not so easy experience to go thru! I would recommend Sam to anyone wanting a less stressful way to proceed thru a divorce.” – Ron W. 

“Sam was very helpful assisting my ex-wife and I through our divorce. He was professional, remained neutral, provided guidance and ensured that nothing was overlooked. I would recommend his services to anyone that is looking for a mediator. ” – Alex D. 

“Sam mediated my ex’s and my divorce and and did so knowledgeably, thoroughly and patiently. He looked out for both our interests equally, making sure we’d each considered everything in our agreement. He’s a great guy, likable and when I offered him a few more hours’ worth of payment for the additional time he spent coaxing us through, he turned it down. If you’re at the end of your marriage and seeking help getting through the process, I can’t recommend Sam highly enough.” – Bob M.

“I do not know many mediators , but I know we did choose the right divorce mediator to help us. You were a pleasure to work with!” – Lory M. 

“Very pleased with my divorce mediation experience with Sam.  He is very professional, he provided timely responses to all my inquiries and his prices were very fair. Highly Recommended !” – Cynthia M. 

“I was referred to Sam by a counselor at my Church.  He handled our awkward situation very professionally and objectively.  Sam is an excellent listener, which makes him an outstanding divorce mediator.  I would highly recommend Sam’s expertise. Thanks, Sam !” – Val A.

“Sam listened to both my wife and I and gave very sound advice. I appreciate his even nature and perspective. Highly recommended divorce mediator.” – Todd L.

“Sam is amazing – a true breathe of fresh air.  He gave me amazing information that helped us make the right decision.  He spent 45 minutes on the phone and took the time to outline the process of divorce mediation. He is as good as it gets and is just a stand up guy.  You hardly ever experience service like this anymore. Thanks again ;)” – Jesse S. 

“Sam was very easy to work with.  Being a divorce not all topics were pleasant and could easily have gotten off track but he kept us focused and in the end we both got what we were hoping for and Sam was super helpful. Could not have picked a better divorce mediator.” – Jed S.

 

Positions and Interests in Mediation

September 21, 2018 by  
Filed under Mediation

September 21, 2018

Recently I read this quip, “to be sure to hit the target, shoot first and call whatever you hit the target.” As divorce mediators, we often see parties to negotiation who take this approach. Another way to put it is “shoot first, ask questions later.”

What happens is that a party will enter a negotiation having certain interests that they want fulfilled. So, they stake out a position calculated to fulfill the interest. And, once they stake their claim to the position, that becomes their target. Often, the position is not well crafted to secure the party’s interest. Perhaps the position is overreaching and demands things that are beyond what is necessary to fulfill the interest, or maybe not even really related to the interest. But, they have “shot first,” without fully considering what is needed to fulfill their interest. And, they’ve claimed their position as the target.

It is part of the job of the mediator to apply a filter to the parties’ positions and discern what their real interests are. What are they trying to obtain? What are they trying to protect? And, what are they afraid of losing?

When the mediator can help the parties discern what is really important, rather than what happened to be encompassed in their original positions, they are well on their way to a negotiated settlement that is satisfactory to all.

 

Offices:

Laguna Niguel Divorce Mediation

Anaheim Divorce Mediation

Irvine Divorce Mediation

Newport Beach Divorce Mediation

Huntington Beach Divorce Mediation

Seal Beach Divorce Mediation

Testimonials: 

“Sam is such a great and wonderful divorce mediator throughout my entire 9-month divorce process full with challenges at both emotional and financial sides. He has always been incredibly patient with me and my ex-wife and actually the key element to hold onto both sides to make things keep moving forward. I do want to sincerely recommend him with my all due appreciation and respect for both his work and his kindness for all his future clients.”  – Yuan Y. 

“Sam did an excellent job of divorce mediation between my ex and myself.  He was very fair to us both and very very patient and understanding. Thank you Sam for making a painful situation as painless as possible!!” – Chris W.

“Sam skillfully guided us through a lengthy, often difficult process and helped save us a good deal of grief – and money. He has the patience of a saint and a near ‘Solomonic’ gift to help cut through complex situations and issues.  Sam worked hard to make our outcome as close to ‘Win-Win’ as possible.  He was always professional, helping to keep his clients on the high road at all times.” – Carl S.

 “Sam is a great mediator.   The first time I spoke with him was many years ago when we came close to filing but decided to give it a second chance.  He was very patient and understanding that we may want to work it out.   A few years later we decided that it was enough to just move on and file for divorce.   Same guided us through the divorce mediation without taking anyone’s side.   He was fair and extremely patient, considering the personalities he was dealing with.  Thanks again Sam for everything!” – Ngim L. 

“Sam Anderson’s compassion, knowledge, and experience was a tremendous asset that enabled us to move through the legal process efficiently.   I would highly recommend his services to anyone in need of a trustworthy divorce mediator. ” – Eve R.

“Sam was very easy to work with.  Being a divorce not all topics were pleasant and could easily have gotten off track but he kept us focused and in the end we both got what we were hoping for and Sam was super helpful. Could not have picked a better divorce mediator.” – Jed S.

“Sam’s divorce mediation made a difficult process much easier.  We had a real challenge where we needed to get our house refinanced.  There was a chicken and an egg problem that could have forced the house to go to sale.  Sam came up with a way to solve the problem and save the house.” – Steve K.

“Not only did Sam make the whole process as painless as possible, but he gave calm, reasonable advice that allowed us to make the best decisions for ourselves and our children.  I have contacted Sam no less than three times after our divorce was final with questions.  Each time he responded quickly and went out of his way to help me resolve and understand the issues.  I highly recommend Sam to anyone who finds themselves in need of a great divorce mediator. ” – Christine M.

“Sam made what one would call  ‘ugly process’ go smooth.  He was great in giving fair advice and recommendations to help my wife and I get through this and avoid the legal headache of the court process. I would highly recommend him to anyone looking for a divorce mediator!” – Darin M.

“Sam was very professional and helpful.  He was very patient throughout the whole divorce process and explained things in a way that was easily understood.  He was also very fair in his dealings with myself and my ex. I would highly recommend Sam for those going through this trying period in their life.”  – Rob J.

“Sam is a great divorce mediator. He helped me and my ex through a very difficult time. We did not agree on much and at times it got a little heated. Sam stayed calm and always helped achieve what we came in there to do. The end result was wonderful. He always answered phone calls, emails quickly and was always so friendly and helpful. He never ever took one persons side. I have already recommended him to two friends of mine and will do so in the future. If your looking for a great divorce mediator Sam is your man.  Oh and he also met me at a location that was close to me to sign papers. He always made it convenient for me.” – Lindsey J. 

“Sam is wonderful! He helped us through a difficult and emotionally challenging divorce and handled both myself and my ex-husband with the perfect amount of caring and tact.  The process could not have gone any better. He was fair, kind, straightforward and made the entire process go as smoothly and quickly as possible. He’s the best – I highly recommend him!” – Leah P. 

“Sam provided a positive experience and an easy transition for a not so easy experience to go thru! I would recommend Sam to anyone wanting a less stressful way to proceed thru a divorce.” – Ron W. 

“Sam was very helpful assisting my ex-wife and I through our divorce. He was professional, remained neutral, provided guidance and ensured that nothing was overlooked. I would recommend his services to anyone that is looking for a mediator. ” – Alex D. 

“Sam mediated my ex’s and my divorce and and did so knowledgeably, thoroughly and patiently. He looked out for both our interests equally, making sure we’d each considered everything in our agreement. He’s a great guy, likable and when I offered him a few more hours’ worth of payment for the additional time he spent coaxing us through, he turned it down. If you’re at the end of your marriage and seeking help getting through the process, I can’t recommend Sam highly enough.” – Bob M.

“I do not know many mediators , but I know we did choose the right divorce mediator to help us. You were a pleasure to work with!” – Lory M. 

“I spoke to Sam Anderson over the phone before our initial meeting and, right away, I felt more at ease.  He assured me about some concerns that I had going into the process.  Even though it had been 4 years since the divorce, emotions were high in both of the meetings.  Sam was extremely professional, caring, and helpful walking us through the painful steps of modification.  If I ever needed a divorce mediator again, I would definitely hire Sam Anderson.” – Shannon B.

“Sam worked with us through a very long process to mediate our divorce. He was very fair through the process, I never felt he took anyone’s side. He was always calm and understanding through the process, even though they situation was tense at times. You can tell he was invested in the process to see us to finish. I would highly recommend Sam to any who need his services. Thanks for getting us through Sam.” – Mike C.

“Very pleased with my divorce mediation experience with Sam.  He is very professional, he provided timely responses to all my inquiries and his prices were very fair. Highly Recommended !” – Cynthia M. 

“I was referred to Sam by a counselor at my Church.  He handled our awkward situation very professionally and objectively.  Sam is an excellent listener, which makes him an outstanding divorce mediator.  I would highly recommend Sam’s expertise. Thanks, Sam !” – Val A.

“Sam listened to both my wife and I and gave very sound advice. I appreciate his even nature and perspective. Highly recommended divorce mediator.” – Todd L.

“Sam is amazing – a true breathe of fresh air.  He gave me amazing information that helped us make the right decision.  He spent 45 minutes on the phone and took the time to outline the process of divorce mediation. He is as good as it gets and is just a stand up guy.  You hardly ever experience service like this anymore. Thanks again ;)” – Jesse S. 

 

 

Golf and Mediation

September 21, 2018 by  
Filed under Mediation

September 21, 2018

I heard an old golf  joke yesterday: A ‘gimme’ can best be defined as an agreement between two golfers …neither of whom can putt very well.This hi-lites a key dynamic of divorce mediation. Mediation is most effective when each party focuses on their own risk/reward.  Many times in conflict, things come to what is called an impasse because one or both of the parties is more focused on what the other party stands to gain than their own interests. Often in divorce mediation, if you can get the parties to focus on their own best interests, the solution to the problem becomes simple – a “gimme.”

 

 

Offices:

Anaheim Divorce Mediation

Irvine Divorce Mediation

Newport Beach Divorce Mediation

Seal Beach Divorce Mediation

Huntington Beach Divorce Mediation

Laguna Niguel Divorce Mediation

Testimonials: 

“Sam skillfully guided us through a lengthy, often difficult process and helped save us a good deal of grief – and money. He has the patience of a saint and a near ‘Solomonic’ gift to help cut through complex situations and issues.  Sam worked hard to make our outcome as close to ‘Win-Win’ as possible.  He was always professional, helping to keep his clients on the high road at all times.” – Carl S.

“Sam is an excellent mediator and pushed the process smoothly and efficiently. He offered knowledgeable advice and provided impartial guidance through our divorce agreement.  He even offered assistance after our divorce was settled, which has been very much appreciated.  I recommend Sam to anyone who requires a divorce mediator. ” – Janine T. 

“Sam is a great mediator.   The first time I spoke with him was many years ago when we came close to filing but decided to give it a second chance.  He was very patient and understanding that we may want to work it out.   A few years later we decided that it was enough to just move on and file for divorce.   Same guided us through the divorce mediation without taking anyone’s side.   He was fair and extremely patient, considering the personalities he was dealing with.  Thanks again Sam for everything!” – Ngim L. 

“Sam did an excellent job of divorce mediation between my ex and myself.  He was very fair to us both and very very patient and understanding. Thank you Sam for making a painful situation as painless as possible!!” – Chris W.

“Sam Anderson’s compassion, knowledge, and experience was a tremendous asset that enabled us to move through the legal process efficiently.   I would highly recommend his services to anyone in need of a trustworthy divorce mediator. ” – Eve R.

“Sam’s divorce mediation made a difficult process much easier.  We had a real challenge where we needed to get our house refinanced.  There was a chicken and an egg problem that could have forced the house to go to sale.  Sam came up with a way to solve the problem and save the house.” – Steve K.

“Sam is such a great and wonderful divorce mediator throughout my entire 9-month divorce process full with challenges at both emotional and financial sides. He has always been incredibly patient with me and my ex-wife and actually the key element to hold onto both sides to make things keep moving forward. I do want to sincerely recommend him with my all due appreciation and respect for both his work and his kindness for all his future clients.”  – Yuan Y. 

“Not only did Sam make the whole process as painless as possible, but he gave calm, reasonable advice that allowed us to make the best decisions for ourselves and our children.  I have contacted Sam no less than three times after our divorce was final with questions.  Each time he responded quickly and went out of his way to help me resolve and understand the issues.  I highly recommend Sam to anyone who finds themselves in need of a great divorce mediator. ” – Christine M.

“Sam made what one would call  ‘ugly process’ go smooth.  He was great in giving fair advice and recommendations to help my wife and I get through this and avoid the legal headache of the court process. I would highly recommend him to anyone looking for a divorce mediator!” – Darin M.

“Sam was very professional and helpful.  He was very patient throughout the whole divorce process and explained things in a way that was easily understood.  He was also very fair in his dealings with myself and my ex. I would highly recommend Sam for those going through this trying period in their life.”  – Rob J.

“Sam is a great divorce mediator. He helped me and my ex through a very difficult time. We did not agree on much and at times it got a little heated. Sam stayed calm and always helped achieve what we came in there to do. The end result was wonderful. He always answered phone calls, emails quickly and was always so friendly and helpful. He never ever took one persons side. I have already recommended him to two friends of mine and will do so in the future. If your looking for a great divorce mediator Sam is your man.  Oh and he also met me at a location that was close to me to sign papers. He always made it convenient for me.” – Lindsey J. 

“Sam is wonderful! He helped us through a difficult and emotionally challenging divorce and handled both myself and my ex-husband with the perfect amount of caring and tact.  The process could not have gone any better. He was fair, kind, straightforward and made the entire process go as smoothly and quickly as possible. He’s the best – I highly recommend him!” – Leah P. 

“Sam provided a positive experience and an easy transition for a not so easy experience to go thru! I would recommend Sam to anyone wanting a less stressful way to proceed thru a divorce.” – Ron W. 

“Sam was very helpful assisting my ex-wife and I through our divorce. He was professional, remained neutral, provided guidance and ensured that nothing was overlooked. I would recommend his services to anyone that is looking for a mediator. ” – Alex D. 

“Sam mediated my ex’s and my divorce and and did so knowledgeably, thoroughly and patiently. He looked out for both our interests equally, making sure we’d each considered everything in our agreement. He’s a great guy, likable and when I offered him a few more hours’ worth of payment for the additional time he spent coaxing us through, he turned it down. If you’re at the end of your marriage and seeking help getting through the process, I can’t recommend Sam highly enough.” – Bob M.

“I do not know many mediators , but I know we did choose the right divorce mediator to help us. You were a pleasure to work with!” – Lory M. 

“I spoke to Sam Anderson over the phone before our initial meeting and, right away, I felt more at ease.  He assured me about some concerns that I had going into the process.  Even though it had been 4 years since the divorce, emotions were high in both of the meetings.  Sam was extremely professional, caring, and helpful walking us through the painful steps of modification.  If I ever needed a divorce mediator again, I would definitely hire Sam Anderson.” – Shannon B.

“Sam worked with us through a very long process to mediate our divorce. He was very fair through the process, I never felt he took anyone’s side. He was always calm and understanding through the process, even though they situation was tense at times. You can tell he was invested in the process to see us to finish. I would highly recommend Sam to any who need his services. Thanks for getting us through Sam.” – Mike C.

“Very pleased with my divorce mediation experience with Sam.  He is very professional, he provided timely responses to all my inquiries and his prices were very fair. Highly Recommended !” – Cynthia M. 

“I was referred to Sam by a counselor at my Church.  He handled our awkward situation very professionally and objectively.  Sam is an excellent listener, which makes him an outstanding divorce mediator.  I would highly recommend Sam’s expertise. Thanks, Sam !” – Val A.

“Sam listened to both my wife and I and gave very sound advice. I appreciate his even nature and perspective. Highly recommended divorce mediator.” – Todd L.

“Sam is amazing – a true breathe of fresh air.  He gave me amazing information that helped us make the right decision.  He spent 45 minutes on the phone and took the time to outline the process of divorce mediation. He is as good as it gets and is just a stand up guy.  You hardly ever experience service like this anymore. Thanks again ;)” – Jesse S. 

“Sam was very easy to work with.  Being a divorce not all topics were pleasant and could easily have gotten off track but he kept us focused and in the end we both got what we were hoping for and Sam was super helpful. Could not have picked a better divorce mediator.” – Jed S.

July 11, 2018

Rushing to a Decision

September 20, 2018 by  
Filed under Mediation

September 20, 2018

There are times when a mediated divorce will move along methodically and then one or both parties will suddenly want to finish quickly. Sometimes, this is driven by that spouse becoming attached to a new significant other. A new significant other will sometimes urge the spouse to finish the divorce so that they can move on with their lives. Other times, the suddenly antsy spouse may feel circumstances have changed since the negotiation of some terms of the agreement, and they want to complete the divorce prior to that change coming to light.

Here are some tips on how to evaluate your situation, whether you feel rushed or not, but they are particularly important to think about if you feel hurried. Because once you sign that piece of paper, you’re bound to those terms by contract, and it will very soon become a final Judgment of the Court.

Understand that this is all about two words: informed consent.

So, first, are you informed enough to come to an agreement? Have you obtained enough information to agree upon the terms you are considering. The next step is to engage in a little self-examination before signing, to see if you are agreeing voluntarily. Have you really negotiated your best agreement, or are you signing just to stop having to meet with your spouse in mediation any more? Are you signing because you feel pressured by your spouse or, even worse, are you signing because you’re in fear of what might happen if you don’t? Is signing really an act of free will on your part? Is signing really an act of free will on the part of your spouse? Do you want to sign quickly because you’re afraid that if your spouse figures out that you’re getting a really good deal, he/she will demand changes? There are many reasons to sign your agreement, but especially in the context of feeling pressured to agree quickly, you have to ask yourself why you must do that, instead of acting more methodically. Make sure that you’re signing for the right reasons for you, and that you want to sign. If you don’t, slow down, and then…

Balance the alternatives. Having bad alternatives is not the same as having no alternatives. Sometimes, there will be many better alternatives, including going back to the negotiating table and asking for more, or looking for more creative solutions, or hiring an expert to provide a valuation of something. At such a time, you might risk words of anger or frustration by your spouse, but in the majority of situations, and in the balancing of that frustration versus getting better terms, getting better terms carries more weight (and your spouse usually gets over his/her frustration at the slow pace). Sometimes the alternatives to coming to a quick agreement are all bad, and if that’s your situation, and if you are fully informed about the alternatives, and consenting to the agreement voluntarily, then you should move forward with a clear conscience.

Last, this is why we always advise clients to review their final agreements with independent legal counsel. It allows an opportunity for a trained legal professional, in a privileged conversation, to look you in the eye, advise you about your legal rights, and ask if you had enough information for, and voluntarily consented to, your agreement.

Offices:

Seal Beach Divorce Mediation

Laguna Niguel Divorce Mediation

Anaheim Divorce Mediation

Irvine Divorce Mediation

Newport Beach Divorce Mediation

Huntington Beach Divorce Mediation

Testimonials:

“Sam is a great mediator.   The first time I spoke with him was many years ago when we came close to filing but decided to give it a second chance.  He was very patient and understanding that we may want to work it out.   A few years later we decided that it was enough to just move on and file for divorce.   Same guided us through the divorce mediation without taking anyone’s side.   He was fair and extremely patient, considering the personalities he was dealing with.  Thanks again Sam for everything!” – Ngim L. 

“Sam skillfully guided us through a lengthy, often difficult process and helped save us a good deal of grief – and money. He has the patience of a saint and a near ‘Solomonic’ gift to help cut through complex situations and issues.  Sam worked hard to make our outcome as close to ‘Win-Win’ as possible.  He was always professional, helping to keep his clients on the high road at all times.” – Carl S.

“Sam did an excellent job of divorce mediation between my ex and myself.  He was very fair to us both and very very patient and understanding. Thank you Sam for making a painful situation as painless as possible!!” – Chris W.

“Sam Anderson’s compassion, knowledge, and experience was a tremendous asset that enabled us to move through the legal process efficiently.   I would highly recommend his services to anyone in need of a trustworthy divorce mediator. ” – Eve R.

“Sam’s divorce mediation made a difficult process much easier.  We had a real challenge where we needed to get our house refinanced.  There was a chicken and an egg problem that could have forced the house to go to sale.  Sam came up with a way to solve the problem and save the house.” – Steve K.

“Sam is an excellent mediator and pushed the process smoothly and efficiently. He offered knowledgeable advice and provided impartial guidance through our divorce agreement.  He even offered assistance after our divorce was settled, which has been very much appreciated.  I recommend Sam to anyone who requires a divorce mediator. ” – Janine T. 

“Sam is such a great and wonderful divorce mediator throughout my entire 9-month divorce process full with challenges at both emotional and financial sides. He has always been incredibly patient with me and my ex-wife and actually the key element to hold onto both sides to make things keep moving forward. I do want to sincerely recommend him with my all due appreciation and respect for both his work and his kindness for all his future clients.”  – Yuan Y. 

“Not only did Sam make the whole process as painless as possible, but he gave calm, reasonable advice that allowed us to make the best decisions for ourselves and our children.  I have contacted Sam no less than three times after our divorce was final with questions.  Each time he responded quickly and went out of his way to help me resolve and understand the issues.  I highly recommend Sam to anyone who finds themselves in need of a great divorce mediator. ” – Christine M.

“Sam made what one would call  ‘ugly process’ go smooth.  He was great in giving fair advice and recommendations to help my wife and I get through this and avoid the legal headache of the court process. I would highly recommend him to anyone looking for a divorce mediator!” – Darin M.

“Sam was very professional and helpful.  He was very patient throughout the whole divorce process and explained things in a way that was easily understood.  He was also very fair in his dealings with myself and my ex. I would highly recommend Sam for those going through this trying period in their life.”  – Rob J.

“Sam is a great divorce mediator. He helped me and my ex through a very difficult time. We did not agree on much and at times it got a little heated. Sam stayed calm and always helped achieve what we came in there to do. The end result was wonderful. He always answered phone calls, emails quickly and was always so friendly and helpful. He never ever took one persons side. I have already recommended him to two friends of mine and will do so in the future. If your looking for a great divorce mediator Sam is your man.  Oh and he also met me at a location that was close to me to sign papers. He always made it convenient for me.” – Lindsey J. 

“Sam is wonderful! He helped us through a difficult and emotionally challenging divorce and handled both myself and my ex-husband with the perfect amount of caring and tact.  The process could not have gone any better. He was fair, kind, straightforward and made the entire process go as smoothly and quickly as possible. He’s the best – I highly recommend him!” – Leah P. 

“Sam provided a positive experience and an easy transition for a not so easy experience to go thru! I would recommend Sam to anyone wanting a less stressful way to proceed thru a divorce.” – Ron W. 

“Sam was very helpful assisting my ex-wife and I through our divorce. He was professional, remained neutral, provided guidance and ensured that nothing was overlooked. I would recommend his services to anyone that is looking for a mediator. ” – Alex D. 

“Sam mediated my ex’s and my divorce and and did so knowledgeably, thoroughly and patiently. He looked out for both our interests equally, making sure we’d each considered everything in our agreement. He’s a great guy, likable and when I offered him a few more hours’ worth of payment for the additional time he spent coaxing us through, he turned it down. If you’re at the end of your marriage and seeking help getting through the process, I can’t recommend Sam highly enough.” – Bob M.

“I do not know many mediators , but I know we did choose the right divorce mediator to help us. You were a pleasure to work with!” – Lory M. 

“I spoke to Sam Anderson over the phone before our initial meeting and, right away, I felt more at ease.  He assured me about some concerns that I had going into the process.  Even though it had been 4 years since the divorce, emotions were high in both of the meetings.  Sam was extremely professional, caring, and helpful walking us through the painful steps of modification.  If I ever needed a divorce mediator again, I would definitely hire Sam Anderson.” – Shannon B.

“Sam worked with us through a very long process to mediate our divorce. He was very fair through the process, I never felt he took anyone’s side. He was always calm and understanding through the process, even though they situation was tense at times. You can tell he was invested in the process to see us to finish. I would highly recommend Sam to any who need his services. Thanks for getting us through Sam.” – Mike C.

“Very pleased with my divorce mediation experience with Sam.  He is very professional, he provided timely responses to all my inquiries and his prices were very fair. Highly Recommended !” – Cynthia M. 

“I was referred to Sam by a counselor at my Church.  He handled our awkward situation very professionally and objectively.  Sam is an excellent listener, which makes him an outstanding divorce mediator.  I would highly recommend Sam’s expertise. Thanks, Sam !” – Val A.

“Sam listened to both my wife and I and gave very sound advice. I appreciate his even nature and perspective. Highly recommended divorce mediator.” – Todd L.

“Sam is amazing – a true breathe of fresh air.  He gave me amazing information that helped us make the right decision.  He spent 45 minutes on the phone and took the time to outline the process of divorce mediation. He is as good as it gets and is just a stand up guy.  You hardly ever experience service like this anymore. Thanks again ;)” – Jesse S. 

“Sam was very easy to work with.  Being a divorce not all topics were pleasant and could easily have gotten off track but he kept us focused and in the end we both got what we were hoping for and Sam was super helpful. Could not have picked a better divorce mediator.” – Jed S.